First - It's Important That You Know Who I Am & What I Stand For!
THIS IS WHERE I WAS...
Before you dive into the professional section I would love for you to really get to know me. First off, I'm a Caribbean girl, Francophile/LOVER OF THE FRENCH CULTURE; and when I'm in the kitchen it's a fancy affair with myself & a glass of wine. When I created the High Styled Life Community, I wanted to show my personality. I wanted to create a business that reflected what I stand for & what I love. I believe that a great pair of heels, a glass of wine, chocolate AND THE RIGHT MINDSET & ATTITUDE can solve almost anything!! But it didn't start there. OH NOOO
Imagine...crying yourself to sleep from stress and worry and anger and pain. That was me. Imagine, sweeping your hair off the floor from the result of anxiety and high-level stress, and negativity because the answers you need aren't showing up! That was me again. Imagine being so financially stressed that you can't even afford a proper meal. Me again. Now imagine, stepping off a plane in Paris and thinking "wowww, I can't believe that I am here. You guessed it. Moi.
If someone told me 5 years ago that I would be where I am right now I would laugh. Me? Introverted, people pleasing, never vocal, in debt Menellia? Never.... But it did somehow, someway happen. And if I were too fast forward to today I wouldn't; because I would miss out on the art of cultivating the a lifestyle & mindset I have now.
It hasn't been a smooth sailing, but the rough waters of lessons and training have helped me cultivate what's important to my well-being, my happiness, my Joie De Vivre. And I spill my metamorphosis in this post because when I got clarity on what I wanted, I became dedicated and remained persistent! When all the signs said noooooo this isn't for you, you're not cut out for this, you're not good enough, just be comfortable and grateful and all that, I pressed on.
Had I listened to that ego mindset I wouldn't have developed this passionate brand, learn how to speak in public "this girl was a crier”, work with women across the world, nor become my highest performing self-doing the things I realllllly love!! And it's really important for me to share my vulnerability with you too.
I don't have all the answers, but I know this truth - when you stop resisting, MAGIC REALLLLY happens! When you allow yourself to step into the highest version of you with confidence, your life TRANSFORMS!
It took me a very long 4+ years to get from indifferent, stressed out, doubting myself & afraid of creating a success & a lifestyle where my happiness & positive energy is the center of everything. But you don't have to go through the pain anymore. Because I'm going to show you how to cultivate an elegantly successful happy lifestyle,whether you're in your 9-5 or you're building your online business. Let's get started!