My Full Story + Me & You
How It All Began
My journey to self transformation began more than 10 years ago; however; the grand image finalised after my first trip to Paris in 2015, where I decided "after an agument with my travel partner" that I was over people pleasing, lacking confidence and feeling judged for who I was and what I wanted. My journey expanded as a professional blogger, to blog coach , personal development coach and now a lifestyle & business success coach. It's been a trying ride, but I wouldn't trade it for anything less. Because without my experience and expertise I would not be guided here to now teach you how to become the best version of yourself in life, career or business!
IT'S IMPORTANT THAT YOU GET TO KNOW ME & WHAT I STAND FOR! THIS IS WHERE I WAS & MY JOURNEY..
I'm a Caribbean girl, francophile/lover of the french culture; and when I’m in the kitchen it's a fancy affair with myself & a glass of wine. When I created this space I had you in mind & I wanted to show my personality. I wanted to create a business that reflected my philosophy & what I love. I believe that a great pair of heels, a glass of wine, chocolate and the right mindset & attitude can solve almost anything!!
MY PERSONAL JOURNEY
2012 - 2014
"Broken, depleted,depressed , angry and broke, discovered the law of attraction, and started over with rebuilding my life.
2015 My Rebirth Began
"My rebirth began & spent 2 weeks in Paris, where I found myself, started to style blog once again and decided to be professional about it, built a team of amazing contributors, worked with brands, and decided that it was time for more
Now imagine, stepping off a plane in Paris and thinking "wowww, I can't believe that I am here. You guessed it. Moi.
If someone told me 5 years ago that I would be where I am right now I would laugh. Me? Introverted, people pleasing, never vocal, in debt Menellia? Never.... But it did somehow, someway happen. And if I were too fast forward to today I wouldn't; because I would miss out on the art of cultivating the a lifestyle & mindset I have now.
It hasn't been a smooth sailing, but the rough waters of lessons and training have helped me cultivate what's important to my well-being, my happiness, my Joie De Vivre. And I spill my metamorphosis in this post because when I got clarity on what I wanted, I became dedicated and remained persistent! When all the signs said noooooo this isn't for you, you're not cut out for this, you're not good enough, just be comfortable and grateful and all that, I pressed on.
2016 - Today "My Soul Growth & Soaring"
Had I listened to that ego mindset I wouldn't have developed this passionate brand, learn how to speak in public "this girl was a crier”, work with women across the world, nor become my highest performing self-doing the things I realllllly love!! And it's really important for me to share my vulnerability with you too. I don't have all the answers, but I know this truth - when you stop resisting, MAGIC REALLLLY happens! When you allow yourself to step into the highest version of you with confidence, your life TRANSFORMS!
"Shut down my blog, started my lifestyle coaching business,worked with women globally, got featured and contributed to some major platforms, held 2 live coaching lunches, went to paris again for 1 month, expanded my horizon, worked with 3 coaches, kicked ass at my career; and here we are!
It took me a very long 4+ years to get from indifferent, stressed out, doubting myself & afraid of creating a success & a lifestyle where my happiness & positive energy is the center of everything. But you don't have to go through the pain anymore. Because I'm going to show you how to cultivate an elegantly successful happy lifestyle, as you're building your online business.
NOW ABOUT YOU.
A Little Elegance Never Hurt Nobody!
"You + Me + Us"
If there was a modern day Audrey Hepburn of life design that would be moi ~ I'm a Caribbean girl, devout Francophile & your coach who's passionate about cultivating success elegantly!"
If you landed here, then chances are you were searching for an answer, a way, a liberation to getting your LIFE, CAREER OR BUSINESS OUT OF stuck in a desolate place. And what you’ve been doing is not working! You're probably afraid to use your voice, you're self-sabotaging, and you wish you could balance out your life, business , career with so much more ease.
You desire more pleasure, more meaning and more joy... well you're in the right place darling. Let's get you started.
I Love The Terminology "Connoisseur".
It's Fancy & Daring.
A connoisseur has to go through the process of analysis before authenticating and validating the best artwork, wine, meal. And I know it sounds sexy and simple, but a winemaker has to sow, sort, reap, before he can enjoy the rewards of his labor. You're not alone in this game my darling. And your setback is just the spark you needed to ignite your comeback!The elegant success approach allows you to step outside of what you're used to & instead come into connection with your true essence, your inner soul & infuse that into your lifestyle & business structure. I like to call the ultimate process, becoming your own success connoisseur through 3 foundational pillars